Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
"Have patience with all things, but first with yourself." This profound quote by our
patron, St. Francis de Sales, underscores the immense value of patience. It reminds
us never to equate our mistakes with our worth as human beings. Your existence
alone makes you inherently valuable, creative, and worthy, regardless of your
triumphs or setbacks.
When faced with challenges and contradictions, resist the urge to force solutions.
Instead, approach them with gentleness, time, and above all, patience. Haste and
worry often hinder our path to growth and perfection. Strive to do everything
calmly and quietly, preserving your inner peace even when the world around you is
in turmoil.
The virtue of patience is a cornerstone of self-mastery and personal development.
As difficulties arise, embrace them with a smile, for you are in the hands of God.
Remember, it is better to remain silent than to speak harsh truths and ruin an
otherwise harmonious moment, much like spoiling a fine dish with an unpleasant
sauce.If you must err, lean toward gentleness and patience, for the human heart is
more inclined to yield to kindness than to rigidity. Often, what someone truly
needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens.
Patience is not mere idleness; it is the strength to endure and the wisdom to wait
for the perfect moment, trusting in God's divine timing. Doing nothing is not
patience; rather, patience is how we conduct ourselves during the wait.
Let me leave you with a thought: what comes easily may not endure, and what
endures is rarely achieved without effort.
- G. Juanita Sharon
IX-C
ST. FRANCIS DE SALES
St. Francis de Sales was born in the Savoy region of France on August 21, 1567.
Although encouraged by his father to become a lawyer, he entered the priesthood,
convincing his family that the ministry was his true calling. Saint Francis's words,
"Be patient with everyone, but above all with yourself. Do not be disheartened by
your imperfections, but always rise up with fresh courage," held true throughout
his life. He was a very patient and deliberate man and undoubtedly lived a life of
great virtue and holiness.
St. Francis was filled with love for God and for the people who surrounded him.
He dedicated his time to the spiritual direction of laypeople, a practice that was
extremely unusual at that time, and served people until he passed away on
December 28, 1622.
He is the patron saint of adult education, the deaf, and journalists. He gained a
great reputation as a writer, preacher, and debater. He is the official patron for
authors and journalists. He is also the patron of the deaf, having developed a
method for teaching catechism to young deaf individuals. In 1923, Pope Pius XI
named him the patron saint of writers. St. Francis de Sales is still commemorated
on January 24th, celebrated as the Feast Day of St. Francis de Sales.
-Ann Mary Patrick
IX D
“Be Who You Are…”
St. Francis de Sales once said, "Be who you are and be that well." His quote
resonates with wisdom and conveys an untold truth in a world that pressures us to
be perfect and conform to societal expectations. It serves as a reminder of the
importance of staying true to ourselves, embracing our talents, and accepting our
weaknesses. This quote inspires us to live an authentic life.
The first part of the quote, "Be who you are," emphasizes that it is not our
responsibility to meet the impossible standards set by the world. Instead, it
encourages us to recognize our strengths, values, talents, flaws, and imperfections.
It urges us to accept the qualities that make us unique. When we remain true to
ourselves, we radiate our true essence.
The second part of the quote, "and be that well," goes beyond self-acceptance. It
motivates us to nurture and develop everything that makes us unique. We should
strive to be the best version of ourselves in all our endeavors by cultivating and
enhancing all our qualities to the fullest. By dedicating ourselves to becoming the
best version, we unlock our full potential and offer the world the best of what we
can be.
As human beings, we often experience insecurity and engage in comparisons with
others. We may perceive ourselves as inferior in comparison to the world around
us. This quote reminds us that, regardless of how much better others may appear,
staying true to ourselves and excelling in that authenticity is what truly matters.
Prioritizing our own genuineness and well-being brings a sense of fulfillment and
inner peace. It enables us to find joy in the journey rather than fixating solely on
the destination.
We were each created uniquely and distinctly, and we must never forget that.
-By Lakkshana A. Justin K. Reji and
Pradyuth Ravi Kumar
IX A